Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Traveling Craze

Today is the last day of October, and the first real cool day in Shenzhen after a long summer. Looking back, since I came back to China at the end of July, it has been an incredibly busy traveling season for me - none for business trips, actually. :-)

Besides the two short-term trips to the Northwest, there were weekend trips to Beijing, Shanghai (3 times), Macau/Hong Kong, Guangzhou, Hainan, and Xi'an. In fact, during the three months, I stayed in Shenzhen for only two and half weekends. That was a bit crazy, wasn't it? Yet, I enjoyed all the trips tremendously. That's another incredible fact in itself.

I think I have perfected the art of making weekend trips. Here are a few tips: 1) Visit and/or travel with good friends. It's not where you go, but whom you are with. 2) Don't over plan even for such short trips. This is the same idea as traveling light - both physically and mentally. 3) Get good deals on transportation. For all the flights I took, I paid, on average, half price. (That's how I can do more of them! :-)

Now here comes tip #4) After three months like this, take a break. :-)

Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Break From BSF

Last night (Monday) was the first time in a long while that I was free from traveling or passport/visa issues; in other words, I could go to Hong Kong for the BSF men's class. But I didn't. I have decided not to continue going to BSF for the time being. This is a little bit sad.

The struggle started last "school year" (from September to June), when much increased workload forced me to skip classes now and then, but at least I was able to go 3 out of 4 weeks each month (but often late). The new school year did not start well. After nearly two full months, I have made it only twice, reasons including visa issues (see a previous entry) and traveling, while my workload isn't getting any less - but will likely be more in the coming month. Without attending the class consistently, the whole study has become ineffective. Finally, I decided to "take a break."

Not to mention I have received favorable treatment from the Hong Kong class. By BSF rules, you are supposed to yield your spot after certain number of absences in succession. The Hong Kong class has been gracious to me, partly because they do encourage me to continue, and in turn this would encourage my classmates - Here is a guy who crosses the border every week to attend the class! What's your excuse? :-)

But not being able to keep it up is becoming a burden on my heart. It's time to take a break.

They say it takes a new habit (hopefully good) to replace an old habit. Now, going to BSF has been a good habit - and I am very thankful for the past two years - how do I come up with another good habit? There is definitely room for it. Going to the Hong Kong class is 2.5 hours one-way. Plus the 2-hour class, I am getting "extra" 7 hours on Monday evening. Granted, I won't have an excuse anymore to leave work on Monday at 4:30 PM, but let's say I can still get out of office at 6:30 PM. That's 5 hours that I can put in good use.

Your pr*yers are much needed. Last night didn't go too well, as if I suddenly didn't know what to do with the time! I popped in and out DVDs of a few mediocre movies. It was restful physically, but not entirely peaceful or joyful.

Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Under Street Lights

The last time I studied - for anything - under street lights was when I lived in...China. Actually I don't recall any particular such evenings, but I imagine during all those school years, I surely had a few times to work extra hours for my homework while I couldn't or decided not to stay indoors.

So when I and my friends were forced to go outside for our study tonight, it was as unreal as it could be. It was also pleasantly memorable at the end.

These friends are my Chinese coworkers who work off-site, doing projects for other companies at other sites. They thus often miss the activities at our home office. Two brothers and I developed a heart for these coworkers, and we decided to visit them weekly. Since it's unrealistic to start activities like Nicodemus on those sites, we agreed to study English instead, using an English translation of the Good Book. This has gone on for a few weeks.

Today we went there again. While we were having dinner in a restaurant downstairs from the off-site office building, the power suddenly went out for the whole building. When we finished the candlelight dinner - how romantic - the electricity was still not back. Now what?

We went out exploring. After ruling out a basketball court and a soccer field, we finally found a piece of lawn under street lights near an intersection. The moon was very bright too. The traffic was reasonably light, with buses occasionally went by. The nine of us sat down in a tight circle, and we managed to complete today's lesson on Matthew, Chapter 4.

Perhaps it was the unusual outdoors atmosphere, perhaps it was the fresher air, or perhaps it was the fact that we didn't give up when there was no electricity - I felt a few more hearts were opened tonight.


烛光、月光、街灯光,光光照影
英语、汉语、神话语,语语动心

Saturday, October 13, 2007

Happy Birthday to Yu

Today is my birthday. In China some people have 2 (or more) birthdays, one according to the solar calendar, and one according to the lunar calendar. Here is the funny thing for this year: Today is my birthday according to both the solar (October 13) and lunar (3rd day of the 9th month) calendars! That almost gives away my age, because it usually happens when one's age is a multiple of 19. Can you make an intelligent guess? :-)

I celebrate this day for another reason: Exactly 3 years ago on this day, I left the Bay Area for Shenzhen.

How have I celebrated it? Well, I didn't really have a plan. In fact, my birthday celebration already occurred once during my "journey to the west," when my teammates presented a huge birthday cake.

As it so happened, a group of my coworkers went out to celebrate our recent successful software release, and I joined them today. We went bowling. Now, if you know the Chinese term for "bowling," you'd think that it's the perfect activity for a birthday, since the term 保龄球 literally means a "ball that keeps age." :-)

My parents called me this morning, and friends are writing on my Facebook wall. Likely I will enjoy a couple of nice meals...but nothing is more special than hearing His voice on my birthday.

I was thinking about a particular verse that I only remembered half, so I opened the Good Book. Amazingly, just like you've heard similar stories before, that exact chapter fell into my eyes: Psalm 139. Here were a few verses that particularly touched my heart this morning.

1 O Lord, you have searched me and you know me.
2 You know when I sit and when I rise; you perceive my thoughts from afar.
3 You discern my going out and my lying down; you are familiar with all my ways.
4 Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely, O Lord.

13 For you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
15 My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven together in the depths of the earth,
16 your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me were written in your book before one of them came to be.

23 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts.
24 See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

Wednesday, October 10, 2007

Journey to the West

Another unforgettable trip to a remote area in the far west. How I wish to tell you the big stories, but for now, I am content to share with you the small moments. :-)

Bidding for Flight Ticket

On the way to the far west, I was on board a Hainan Airlines flight. Half way through, the flight attendants announced that they were going to have a fun event: Bidding for a one-way flight ticket that can be used within a year. It was also a kind of fundraising, since the winner might not fly right away, and the money could be first used for a charity cause.

I had not experienced anything quite like it, and since I go to that part of the country frequently, it wouldn't be a challenge to use the ticket within a year. The regular full price for this one-way ticket is close to RMB 2000 yuan, and I set an "upper limit" of 1000 yuan in my mind before I joined the bidding.

The starting price was very low. When someone called 500, I made my first call: 550. Someone called 600, and I raised it to 800. Someone else called 900, and I called what I set to be my limit, 1000 yuan. I responded rather quickly as if I was determined.

"Going once," the flight attendant in the front announced. Needless to say, it did get a little intense for me, and I wondered if I would raise my limit should anyone outbid me at this moment. Ah, the temptation of winning. :-)

"Going twice," it seemed to take her extra long time before the flight attendant opened her mouth again. The next interval was even longer, it appeared, but finally, "Sold!" she announced.

I was visibly relieved, and since I happened to carry that much cash with me, I got the flight ticket at about half-price.

The Ginseng Fruit

Before the official English training program started, we had the opportunity to visit a middle school in a truly rural area. The middle school consisted of grades 7 to 9, and most of the students lived in the mountains, often walking 30 minutes to an hour to school. Only the grade 9 students got to live in school, so that they could spend more time studying.

Our visit made a very positive impression on the school, and the school officials treated us a local specialty called "ginseng fruit" (人参果, ren shen guo). We liked it right away. It tasted juicy and cool. It was not sour, not tart, and not very sweet, almost a perfect combination to quench one's thirst, not to mention all the nutrition it claimed to contain. I was rather surprised to have never seen it elsewhere. At the end of our visit, the school official also gave us 3 boxes of the fruit as their present.


Do you know what's also fun about the ginseng fruit? In the classic novel of Journey to the West (西游记), there was a story about the ginseng fruit. It was said, in the novel, that it took 3,000 years to blossom, 3,000 years to produce the fruit, and another 3,000 years for the fruit to mature. The effect of the 9,000-year-old fruit? One smell increased one's life by 360 years, and eating one gave you 47,000 years. :-)

[Note: Later I learned that there are other types of "ginseng fruits" on the market - all taking the name thanks to the classic novel - but perhaps none tastes as good as the one that we enjoyed.]

The Big Plate Chicken

My teaching partner and I were invited by the whole class one afternoon for an early dinner. It came somewhat as a surprise because this year's class was not as proficient in English as last year's class (we happened to be teaching partners a year ago too), and for the first couple of days, we struggled to connect with the students, who were real teachers themselves (unlike us :-).

Very soon we found out that perhaps not all of them were eager to connect with us anyway, but it was a good opportunity for them to connect with each other. They came from different schools and had not known each other prior to the training program. A dinner together certainly was a typical Chinese way of socializing.

Quickly people gathered at two tables. Those who apparently wanted to talk to us shared a table with us on a kang (炕), a heatable bed that was common in northern China, while the other group were on the other side of the room. They began to play cards when we hoped that somehow they would ask us more questions. Apparently we needed to adjust our expectations. Later when the food came, things turned warmer among us, not just because of the hot food, but talking while eating seemed much more natural to them. This was again very Chinese.

The food was actually quite good. Among many local dishes, we saw one of the biggest plates that we had ever seen on a meal table. The dish, appropriately, was called "big plate chicken," and it was a well-known Xinjiang dish.


As we continued to eat and chat, the other table began a drinking game, something quite common in this part of the country. I shouted, "English!" They laughed and did switch to English to call out the numbers. But apparently it didn't help much, so they switched back to Chinese.

We decided to leave early when my teaching partner suddenly developed a headache, and two local teachers were to return to school for their evening classes. The meal was thus cut short for us, but we were pretty much stuffed, and we urged the teachers to stay and finish the rest of the food.

The whole event seemed not very satisfactory as we still weren't able to connect with them deeply. But at least they appeared comfortable enough not to pretend. Perhaps that was not entirely a bad start for relationship building. And I will not forget the size of that plate!

Stories of the Teachers

(I prepared the following two short stories to share about my experiences.)

I met an English teacher named B, who works 6.5 days a week and drinks a lot. But he really enjoyed the class, and he even hugged me at the closing ceremony. To my surprise, he also prepared personal gifts for me, although he wasn't making much as a teacher.

I met an English teacher name J, who is a strong believer in Buddhism. She shared much of her belief with me, yet she didn't seem interested in mine. At the end, however, she received a set of "pretty good book," and she really appreciated it. I will keep in touch with her.

[Note: In case you wonder what the "pretty good books" are, they are not quite the Good Book, but actual excerpts - instead of retelling - of the Good Book in different forms.]

Mosque and Pagoda

After the English training program, I parted way with my teammates. I went to Xi'an to, interestingly, visit a student from last year's class, who is attending a graduate school as her advanced education as an English teacher.

She is a Muslim, and she was my tour guide to the Muslim Quarters in Xi'an. We enjoyed several different delicacies and toured the market. Then she took me to the Grand Mosque in the city center, one of the oldest mosques of the city, if not the entire nation.

The mosque, not surprisingly, had turned into a tourist site, and they would charge a entry fee of RMB 25 yuan. My friend, however, could go in without paying since she spoke a universal Muslim greeting. She taught me how to say it and assured me that the meaning was no more than a typical "Hello." I was, in fact, quite ready to call Muslims friends brothers and sisters and wish them peace and joy, so I learned the greeting and walked in the mosque also without paying. :-)


Xi'an is known as the starting point of the Silk Road, while many foreign things were introduced to China - in the reverse direction - along the Silk Road, including Buddhism and Islam. A famous Buddhist monk in the Tang Dynasty named Xuan Zang (玄奘), for example, went to India to fetch the significant Buddhist scriptures and returned to Xi'an (called Chang'an back then), where he continued to study the scriptures and preached. The particular site of his studying and teaching is now called the Big Goose Pagoda.

My Muslim friend took me there as well, mainly to watch the music fountain show in the evening. It was raining lightly, and, lucky for us, not many people went. We got a clear view of the show. After the show, we strolled to the front of the pagoda, where a statue of Xuan Zang stood tall in the rain.


Somehow I was touched by the scene. There was this monk, who persevered through all the struggles for what he believed to be the truth, and he was remembered hundreds of years later. I prayed that Xi'an would become a significant site - a starting point - of a different sort, where the real Truth would be shared and spread.

[Note: In case you don't know yet, Xuan Zang was one of the main characters (唐僧) in the classic novel, Journey to the West. The novel was in fact based on his story of bringing the scriptures from the west (India).]